To the lucky girl: take care of him

Hey lucky girl,

I am titling you 'a lucky girl' though I don't know how lucky you would be if he changes his ind like he had when I was in your position I mean when I was his girlfriend. 

Anyway, for now, you're lucky at least in my eyes because I always had and still have the desire to be in the same font as you're now to him. (Only he knows what I have been lacking that was found in you and got me dumped. And only god knows how I repent of permanently giving him my heart just to get it dissolved in between his love and getting broken.)

To rest on his shoulder, to smile looking at his eyes, to rub his hand to make myself warm, to listen to everything he has to say, and to finally wake up from his bed was always my dream that is still incomplete.

In fact, you may not even understand how I wished to be the reason of writing his diary, his profile pictures, his cover page, the reason why he would rush home from the office and why he would frequently lose the concentration on his reading at the sight of me biting my lips at the doorway.

But, hey lucky girl, I didn't have the liberty to accomplish my aforementioned hopes, wishes and dreams with him. But you're having all of it, and I want you to give him the best of everything, even on my behalf.

Treat him best like any good loving wife would do to her husband because I possibly can't hold to see him disregarded. (I may interfere anytime if I know that he isn’t treated the way I would have.)

Don't pour out your tantrums, if he, by any chance, didn't fill your expectations because he is your husband not your power bank. Understand that he is always at the best side. Do not shout on him if he happens to come home late or even with the smell of liquor because he would've always remembered you all the while. Even if not, understand he often needs the space of his own. Don’t let him compromise his friends, families and fun just because of you.

Always give him the time to do what he likes. He likes spending the holiday with books and music. He is adventurous. He likes hiking and getting lost in nature. He also really likes the scenes of a clear blue sky and the prayer flags. (Sometimes you may also snap some beautiful pictures of a morning sky or the sky conceived by the dusk and share with him. He’ll definitely love it.)

He also is obsessed with the 'Manchester Football Club.' Let him watch the matches. If you can, give him the company and equally cheer on his team. If not, let him just spare his few hours before the screen as the way he want.

Well, I don't know if you already know this. His favorite color is blue and the favorite number is 7. And by any chance, if you're confused what to gift him on his birthdays or anniversaries, don't worry. You needn't have to be selective because he values whatever the gifts and the souvenirs. But don’t forget to get one.

Also, never treat his parents any less than yours own because his 'strengths' are his parents. Do not let his strength turns to be his weak points. Be his companion in all weathers. If he comes home tired and exhausted, let him rest. Don't dragged out for the drives or walks. If he want to spend his weekend lazily over the couch, let him. Don't plan for the shopping or the night-out.

One more, sometimes he may forget the groceries you have asked for or forget where he just kept the car keys. But that’s ok. Don't complain. Being absent minded isn't his flaws because he is busy remembering the complicated scientific rules and formula for the better causes. He is busy remembering the smell of your hair, your shoes in the first date and the tactics to make you happier.

Oh well, do you also know he that has a blog? Yes, he has a blog! He writes very well there. But the post number is very less. And here I am, logging-in every day to his blog and dying to read the new post. I wanted to ask him to write since a very long time. But you know, we aren’t in that relationship to compliment and complain each other I mean yea, we never share anything. So, I humbly request you to remind him about the blog.

And the last for today, don't expect him to put your name in the social media and claim that you belong to him. Actually, he is quite conservative I mean he believes that the social media are not where he can publicize your love stories. He really doesn't expose and expresse his feelings online unlike many other couples. Nevertheless, he is romantic in his own way. He will say how he missed you, and how he wanted to have his own child from you and make you feel like a princess. Embrace all those little efforts of him. He is such a gentle person.

Please handle him with care. He is soft and tender. Always love him and be truthful. Don't pour our all your girly qualities. Don't be that drama queen. He may not really like you being overly expressive, possessive and exaggerative. If by any chance, you are enough of him for the good reasons, let me be the first to know. I still have the guts to beg and kneel over his love. (I am just not so over with him. I know this will last for eons of years from now.)

~Regards.

(Note: Fiction For Fun.)